Comments on: A Poll And Discussion: Orgasms http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/ Life on the Less Beaten Path Mon, 06 Feb 2012 21:54:34 -0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Nikki http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2995 Nikki Tue, 16 Feb 2010 17:56:35 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2995 Ok, figured I'd chime in a bit haha. I haven't had a sexual partner since I found out I was preggo, so that was what, December of '07? And this is probably being way too forward, but I've had a lot of sexual partners and never orgasm'd from sex alone. I have to either use my finger or an external vibrator on my clit to O. I normally just fake it because they try so hard it wears them out and I feel bad for them. I am not on antidepressants yet have still never really had a sex drive. i guess just knowing it'll be unfulfilling is enough to turn me off these days lol. Most of the sex I had when I was younger was just to try to find someone that could actually make me O, but I don't think it's possible. I've only had one multiple O and it was under the influence of "stuff" lol, I'll just leave it at that. And that was a LONG time ago. Like 7 years or something lol. Oral does nothing for me, and ever since having my kiddo my nipples aren't sensitive at all anymore either. Sooo, I think I'm gonna stay single and just not even think about sex. I've been to therapy, they said I'm beyond hope hahahaha. Ok, figured I’d chime in a bit haha. I haven’t had a sexual partner since I found out I was preggo, so that was what, December of ‘07? And this is probably being way too forward, but I’ve had a lot of sexual partners and never orgasm’d from sex alone. I have to either use my finger or an external vibrator on my clit to O. I normally just fake it because they try so hard it wears them out and I feel bad for them.

I am not on antidepressants yet have still never really had a sex drive. i guess just knowing it’ll be unfulfilling is enough to turn me off these days lol. Most of the sex I had when I was younger was just to try to find someone that could actually make me O, but I don’t think it’s possible.

I’ve only had one multiple O and it was under the influence of “stuff” lol, I’ll just leave it at that. And that was a LONG time ago. Like 7 years or something lol. Oral does nothing for me, and ever since having my kiddo my nipples aren’t sensitive at all anymore either. Sooo, I think I’m gonna stay single and just not even think about sex. I’ve been to therapy, they said I’m beyond hope hahahaha.

]]> By: Tamra http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2984 Tamra Mon, 15 Feb 2010 02:47:05 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2984 ATroutt- Thanks for joining in! Okay... so I'm really sensitive to a lot of lubes and stuff, too, and I've found KY to work pretty well. There's also one made by Pure Romance... I think it's called "Just Like Me" or something, and that actually was probably the one I found to be most comfortable to use :-). ATroutt- Thanks for joining in!

Okay… so I’m really sensitive to a lot of lubes and stuff, too, and I’ve found KY to work pretty well. There’s also one made by Pure Romance… I think it’s called “Just Like Me” or something, and that actually was probably the one I found to be most comfortable to use :-) .

]]> By: ATroutt http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2983 ATroutt Mon, 15 Feb 2010 02:29:29 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2983 Ok, so I have a couple of different comments b/c I'm new to your blog. (BUT LOVE IT! Laughed my ass off at the penn size one!) So, comments there and then on this subject. As far as the penis size I've had my share of a few...smallest one was the size of my pinkie (no not joking) and I literly was like WTF are you serious? I've also had the overly large kind and it just didn't work for me, hurt more than anything. Now I have the perfect size for me. I truly believe it's the man and the chemistry. When my DH and I met I truly thought it was going to be a one night fling, but the sex was so amazing I couldn't help want more! It hasn't stopped since then and we have been together for just over two years. As for the internal and external orgasm. Ok, so I'm super bashful on this subject but am going out on a limb here. I need the stimultion both inside and out. I was NEVER into oral until my husband, he just has a way with his mouth and toungue. TMI? I don't always reach the big O but when I do it is beyond anything. As for positions the best for me is him on top or me on top, he has to hit my right spot when he is in other wise he hits me just right, rubs just right and I'm done. The other thing, and maybe it's just me, but generally when he is close to getting off it fires me up even more and we have simultanious orgasms and talk about fireworks! I do have problems with natural lube too. I get dry easily. And unfortnatly I have reactions to most lubes so we have to go with ones that are water based. These can be fun though! ;-) However, if you have any suggestions on particular lubes I'm all for it! Ok, so I have a couple of different comments b/c I’m new to your blog. (BUT LOVE IT! Laughed my ass off at the penn size one!) So, comments there and then on this subject.
As far as the penis size I’ve had my share of a few…smallest one was the size of my pinkie (no not joking) and I literly was like WTF are you serious? I’ve also had the overly large kind and it just didn’t work for me, hurt more than anything. Now I have the perfect size for me. I truly believe it’s the man and the chemistry. When my DH and I met I truly thought it was going to be a one night fling, but the sex was so amazing I couldn’t help want more! It hasn’t stopped since then and we have been together for just over two years.
As for the internal and external orgasm. Ok, so I’m super bashful on this subject but am going out on a limb here. I need the stimultion both inside and out. I was NEVER into oral until my husband, he just has a way with his mouth and toungue. TMI? I don’t always reach the big O but when I do it is beyond anything. As for positions the best for me is him on top or me on top, he has to hit my right spot when he is in other wise he hits me just right, rubs just right and I’m done. The other thing, and maybe it’s just me, but generally when he is close to getting off it fires me up even more and we have simultanious orgasms and talk about fireworks!
I do have problems with natural lube too. I get dry easily. And unfortnatly I have reactions to most lubes so we have to go with ones that are water based. These can be fun though! ;-) However, if you have any suggestions on particular lubes I’m all for it!

]]> By: Rosanne http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2959 Rosanne Thu, 11 Feb 2010 19:03:40 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2959 I was just talking to a close friend about this particular blog post and she said her husband bought her KY Intensive for Women and it's made a big difference in her ability to orgasm. She's gone through chemo and has had some issues that were not a factor before, but this lube is making a difference for her. I was just talking to a close friend about this particular blog post and she said her husband bought her KY Intensive for Women and it’s made a big difference in her ability to orgasm. She’s gone through chemo and has had some issues that were not a factor before, but this lube is making a difference for her.

]]> By: Amber http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2950 Amber Wed, 10 Feb 2010 19:37:28 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2950 I can't wait to hubby gets back!!! Sigh 5 weeks no sex sucks, and here you are talking about orgasms... So the internal one, don't think I have ever had one. I need clitoral stimulation and like you Tamra, feels much better with a dick inside. Masterbation is boring with just me, I normally crave penetration when horny. I faked all of mine before hubby. With him it took more than attraction it took a certain feeling of comfort with my body to actually allow myself to stimulate my clit. I am happy with the sex...oh and our sessions are longer too. It is rare when it is less than 20 minutes. I can’t wait to hubby gets back!!! Sigh 5 weeks no sex sucks, and here you are talking about orgasms…
So the internal one, don’t think I have ever had one. I need clitoral stimulation and like you Tamra, feels much better with a dick inside. Masterbation is boring with just me, I normally crave penetration when horny. I faked all of mine before hubby. With him it took more than attraction it took a certain feeling of comfort with my body to actually allow myself to stimulate my clit.
I am happy with the sex…oh and our sessions are longer too. It is rare when it is less than 20 minutes.

]]> By: Mia http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2924 Mia Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:29:39 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2924 Tamra, if there's clit play, then that's a combo internal/external, and those are the BEST! And anonymous, those are good too...when I can handle getting it up there. I've very recently learned that it's easier with me on top. Tamra, if there’s clit play, then that’s a combo internal/external, and those are the BEST! And anonymous, those are good too…when I can handle getting it up there. I’ve very recently learned that it’s easier with me on top.

]]> By: anonymous http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2923 anonymous Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:23:52 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2923 Going anonymous on this...but, you are not alone! Yes, orgasm from anal is amazing. I'd love to experience it more often but we usually don't get there! ;-) Going anonymous on this…but, you are not alone! Yes, orgasm from anal is amazing. I’d love to experience it more often but we usually don’t get there! ;-)

]]> By: anonymous http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2922 anonymous Tue, 09 Feb 2010 00:02:30 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2922 Ok, so I can't believe I'm going to admit this but here goes...my sex life is pretty great, I really just need my significant other to lay there and I know my body well enough that I can give myself three or four internal, oh my god type, orgasms. The absolute best orgasms though, for me, are from anal sex. I definitely wasn't a fan of this when my then-husband brought up the idea but after a lot of lubrication and a little bit of work, we got it and it is AWESOME. I have to be on top to control it but there is nothing better. Am I the only one? Ok, so I can’t believe I’m going to admit this but here goes…my sex life is pretty great, I really just need my significant other to lay there and I know my body well enough that I can give myself three or four internal, oh my god type, orgasms. The absolute best orgasms though, for me, are from anal sex. I definitely wasn’t a fan of this when my then-husband brought up the idea but after a lot of lubrication and a little bit of work, we got it and it is AWESOME. I have to be on top to control it but there is nothing better. Am I the only one?

]]> By: holly http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2920 holly Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:36:10 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2920 hit me up on fbook chat sometime, Tamra. ill fill ya in ;p hit me up on fbook chat sometime, Tamra. ill fill ya in ;p

]]> By: Tamra http://www.surprisinglysane.com/2010/02/05/a-poll-and-discussion-orgasms/comment-page-1/#comment-2919 Tamra Mon, 08 Feb 2010 20:30:44 +0000 http://www.surprisinglysane.com/?p=2567#comment-2919 OMG Holly... LOL! Dare I ask for details? OMG Holly… LOL! Dare I ask for details?

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